I recently saw a poll in a big Face Book group for HOMESCHOOL MOMS that asked the question, “If your church asked all TEACHERS to stand up and be recognized, would you stand up?”
The answers varied, of course, {but the discussion stayed civil, thankfully} and it got me thinking, “would I?”
If my pastor asked the TEACHERS in the congregation to stand up and be recognized, would I stand up?
The answer is NOPE. I would not. I would stay seated and respectfully acknowledge all of the TEACHERS who stood. Why?
Because I don’t consider myself a TEACHER.
I am a HOMESCHOOL MOM.
And HOMESCHOOL MOMS are not the same as CLASSROOM TEACHERS.
I’m a mom who has decided to educate her child at home. Yes, I teach my child. But I am not a TEACHER in the way most people use the term.
I’m not a TEACHER of other people’s kids.
I’m not a TEACHER who is responsible for 30 kids at one time.
I’m not a TEACHER who is mandated to teach specific subjects and utilize certain books.
I’m not a TEACHER who answers to 30 sets of parents, one principal, a team of grade level peers, a full school board and the state.
I’m not a TEACHER who is underpaid but still expected to provide a beautiful but calm, comfortable but exciting, gender-neutral, multi-cultural environment for my students.
I’m not a TEACHER who is regulated in what she can say and how she can say it.
I’m not a TEACHER anymore than a mom who uses homeopathic remedies at home is a doctor.
I’m not a TEACHER anymore than a dad who arms himself at home is a police officer.
I’m not a TEACHER anymore than a neighbor who rescues his family from a fire is a firefighter.
I’m just a mom who decided that it would be best to educate her son at home.
And I get to make that education look however my husband and I decide.
It’s an absolute privilege to do so and I feel blessed every day.
Is it always easy? Of course not.
Is it always fun? Ha. I wish.
Is it worth it? Totally!
But, I am not a TEACHER.
Let those men and women have their discounts.
Let them have their special appreciation weeks.
Let them flood their FB pages with requests for classroom donations.
Let the community call them special.
Let the churches recognize them on certain days.
Let the public donate backpacks and pencil pouches.
HOMESCHOOL MOMS are not the same as CLASSROOM TEACHERS.
CLASSROOM TEACHERS are poorly paid, underappreciated, hard working individuals who deserve special recognition.
And, yes, so are HOMESCHOOL MOMS. We are special. We work hard. We are often underappreciated. And we’re certainly underpaid, ha ha. But we CHOOSE to do those things and be that person for our own families. That is an entirely different concept than a CLASSROOM TEACHER who is assigned 30 new kids each year from community families and is expected to provide a decent education with a small budget and a huge bureaucracy.
Don’t get me wrong. I am not saying CLASSROOM TEACHERS are worth more than HOMESCHOOL MOMS. And I am not saying the opposite.
All, I am saying is that
