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ZOO REVIEW 2- Sacramento Zoo

June 25, 2019 by Katherine Wolfe 1 Comment

Animals are our son’s passion and at 12-years-old, he insists he wants to be a professional zookeeper when he grows up. In addition to driving him to his position as a volunteer animal caretaker at the local museum multiple times each week, my husband and I enjoy taking him to zoos, aquariums, sanctuaries, etc. Besides making memories for our little family, each experience provides new educational opportunities for our son and seems to cement his career choice even further. My professor-by-trade husband calls it “research”. I just call it fun! 

We visited this zoo on a recent trip to celebrate my niece’s graduation from Sacramento State. After all of the festivities were over and the extended family had gone their separate ways, we had part of a day to spend in the area so we took the opportunity to enjoy a new zoo!

NAME: Sacramento Zoo {aka: Sac Zoo}

LOCATION: Sacramento, CA {south of downtown, just off I-5}

HOURS: 9am-4pm every day

ADMSSION RATES: {​General Admission} $16.50;  {Seniors} $15.50; {Children 2-11} $11.50; {Children 0-1} FREE

DESCRIPTION: The Sacramento Zoo first opened its doors in 1927 and was affectionately  referred to as “the little zoo in the park”. Its actual name was the William Land Park Zoo and housed about 40 animals on 4.2 acres of land. In the 1960’s, the zoo was enlarged to the 14.2 acres it is today and in 1970, it adopted the new name, the Sacramento Zoo. It is now a non-profit that houses more than 500 native, rare and endangered animals that represent over 120 unique species. They have a great selection of mammals including giraffes, zebras, lions, several different primates and a brand new {to them} okapi. They also just recently installed a great kid-level habitat for a mob of meerkats.  They also have a fantastic reptile house {that also includes fish and amphibians} and a wide variety of birds including a big flock of flamingos and some super loud parrots. 

SIZE: This is a medium-sized zoo which took us two hours to explore thoroughly AND arrive early enough in order to be first in line to feed the giraffes. If we lived in the area, we would definitely become members so we could visit often. 

ACCESS: Easy to walk with no hills or stairs. A few areas were muddy (it had rained the day before) so my flip-flops weren’t the best choice but not unsafe in any way. There were also a couple of instances that had confusing signage and/or were closed at the end of a path so we got “lost” a bit. Thankfully, because the zoo wasn’t too big, the backtracking we had to do was not extensive at all. 

PARKING: Free! Because the Sac Zoo is located within William Land Park, along with many other fun things to do {Fairy Tale Town, lakes, ponds, rock gardens, golf course…} parking is plentiful but it seemed to consist of mostly parallel parking along the park roads. We had to walk a wee bit from the car to the zoo entrance but the park grounds are amazingly beautiful. We thoroughly enjoyed the variety of plants, flowers and bushes that we found along the way. I wish I had taken pictures but I was trying to conserve my phone’s battery. If we are able to visit this zoo again, I will be better prepared!

GIFT SHOP: The size of the gift shop was in-line with the size of the zoo. Our son, who firmly believes he needs a new stuffed animal every time we go to a new zoo, was thrilled to find a huge selection of nice animals and a “sale” going on. My rule is that any stuffed animal he buys at a zoo needs to be an animal he saw at said zoo and preferably one he does not already have. He chose a Sifaka and an Anteater. 

SPECIAL EXPERIENCE: {Giraffe Encounter} They offer this experience twice each day at 11:45 and 2pm. The cost is $5 {cash only} for one person to feed two small tree branches to a giraffe.  We arrived at the giraffe enclosure about 30 minutes early because I wanted to be sure we were early enough to ensure a spot. The waiting area is a huge shaded area that offers a nice view of the giraffes and also a backview of the zebras. The animal keeper arrived about 1:55pm and, before accepting any money, explained that the giraffes did NOT show any interest in eating during the earlier time slot {11:30} and had not shown any interest at all the day before. Apparently, the recent rain had created enough mud that not even a couple of tasty tree branches were enough incentive for the ungulates to get dirty. But, we were first up, and luckily we were greeted by the most lovely reticulated guy who seemed rather pleased with our offering.  He ambled over slowly but took no time in reaching for the branch that my son was offering. It took all I had to follow the zookeeper’s instructions to NOT reach out and touch that beautiful face. I just knew he had super soft lips like a horse does and he seemed soooooooooooooooo sweet. But, I resisted the temptation and took pics instead. The experience was well worth $5 and I would love to do it again! {NOTE: After our giraffe encounter was over, we still had some other animals to visit which looped us back near the giraffes about 30 minutes later. I noticed at that time, though people were waiting to feed them, no giraffes were approaching the area. I don’t know if they were all full or grew tired of the mud, but I am so glad we were in line first!}

ENJOYMENT RATING: ♥♥♥♥♥ The simplicity of the footprint, the variety of animals and the giraffe encounter made for a wonderful experience. We would recommend this zoo to anybody who is wanting a traditional feeling zoo without the long lines and rigorous walks of a larger sized zoo. {Note: There are no elephants residing at the Sac Zoo so be sure your little ones aren’t expecting to view Dumbo during your visit.}

EDUCATION RATING: ♥♥♥♥♥  The Sac Zoo boasts about education  in their mission statement but it’s not just empty words with them! 1. During our relatively short visit, we encountered a zookeeper in front of the gift shop showing off an animal not just once, but twice! The zookeeper was friendly, patient and helpful. She answered our questions, listened to my son compare “his” animals {from his volunteer position} to hers and allowed us to touch them.  It was a very inviting experience and I was glad that she was there twice for us to enjoy.  2. Not only does the Sac Zoo clearly and accurately label their animal enclosures, they go beyond that by including some extra info about the particular animals on display. Two examples of that was a sign about the cougar’s missing tail and a “Keeper’s Notes” entry on a big whiteboard  explaining that the pair of gibbons we were looking at was actually a 47-year-old father/31-year-old daughter pair! And, many of their animals sported signs that explained when and where they had been born plus other funny facts like, “Pablo {the chimp} is everybody’s friend and doesn’t like too much drama”.   3. Their website is a treasure trove of educational info. It lists every animal residing at the Sac Zoo and includes a link to a PDF filled with loads of great info about each animal. 

ENCLOSURE RATING: ♥♥♥♥_ The Sacramento Zoo has an unusually small footprint for a capital city.  As a result, many of the enclosures are smallish and a lot of ugly chain-link fence is still in use. But the animals seemed well taken care of content. Plus, there is a lot of current talk about relocating the zoo to a bigger location. Additional info on that hot topic can be found on their website. 

CONCLUDING THOUGHTS: We thoroughly enjoyed our visit and would highly recommend it, especially to families with kids. It’s easy to explore, not too big or too busy, educationally engaging and offers a wide variety of animals!

CONTACT INFO: 3930 West Land Park Drive, Sacramento, CA 95822 ~
916-808-5888 ~ https://www.saczoo.org/

Filed Under: REVIEWS, Zoos Tagged With: Sacramento Zoo, SacZoo, Zoo Review

ZOO REVIEW 1- Cat Tales Wildlife Center

June 20, 2019 by Katherine Wolfe 31 Comments

Animals are our son’s passion and at 12-years-old, he insists he wants to be a professional zookeeper when he grows up. In addition to driving him to his position as a volunteer animal caretaker at the local museum multiple times each week, my husband and I enjoy taking him to zoos, aquariums, sanctuaries, etc. Besides making memories for our little family, each experience provides new educational opportunities for our son and seems to cement his career choice even further. My professor-by-trade husband calls it “research”. I just call it fun! 

We visited this zoo on a recent trip to see my brother and his wife on their new farm in Cheney, Washington. While there, my sister-in-law suggested we visit Cat Tales Wildlife Center so we spent part of an afternoon exploring this little gem…

NAME: Cat Tales Wildlife Center {also listed as Cat Tales Zoological Park}

LOCATION: Mead, WA {close to Spokane}

HOURS: {Summer} 10am-5PM,  {Winter} 10am-4pm, closed Mondays

ADMSSION RATES:  {​Adults} $10.00;    {Seniors/Students} $8.00;    {Children 3-12} $5.00; {senior citizens on Sundays, handicapped always, active duty military/veterans/law enforcement/firefighters with ID} FREE 

DESCRIPTION: Cat Tales is a small nonprofit sanctuary for rescued big cats and other wildlife.  The animals have been rescued from unfortunate “pet” situations, retired from the entertainment industry and rehabilitated after unfortunate injuries in the wild.  Current animals include: two American Black Bears, four North American Bobcats, three coyotes, one Red Fox, one African Lion, one Canadian Lynx, two North American Pumas, several tigers and a wolf-hybrid. 

SIZE: This is a very small zoo, which makes it ideal for quick visits. You could easily do the entire zoo {and still  be very thorough} in an hour. If we lived in the area, we could definitely get a membership and visit frequently.

ACCESS: Super duper uber easy to get around. It’s all flat and involves no stairs at all. There is a ramp that leads into the gift shop, but other than that, the grounds are as flat as can be. Strollers, walkers and wheelchairs would be easily managed. There are also lots of places to sit along the way.

PARKING: Free, plentiful and close to the entrance!

FOOD/DRINKS: There are no snack shops or restaurants of any sort but there are a few food/drink items available in the gift shop. My husband bought a candy bar and soda and didn’t grumble about the price so it must’ve been on some sort of reasonable level. 

GIFT SHOP:  As would be expected at a small zoo, the gift shop is also rather small BUT besides the obligatory stuffed toys and souvenir mugs, it does hold some fun surprises. The nursery is adjacent to and totally viewable from inside the gift shop. During our visit, they had Red Fox kits in the nursery which were adorable to see! There is also a small museum of sorts that includes some full size taxidermied animals. 

SPECIAL EXPERIENCE: {Big Cat and Bear Adventures} Doing one of these is a must! The cost of $10 to feed a bear, lion or tiger is totally worth it! The Kid fed grapes to a black bear and we both fed meat to a tiger (we paid for a total of three “adventures”.) The bear was hilariously excited about his grapes….like, hopping on his feet in happy anticipation of each grape. Because the kid is only 12 years old, an adult was expected to participate as well (bummer for me, ha ha!) So, I had a front row view of the grateful bear! That experience left me wanting to hug the big fuzzy guy and feed him grapes by the boatload. {But, of course I have a healthy respect for wild animals and would never do such a thing!} The tiger was waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more intimidating and serious and did not greet each bite with glee like the bear. Rather, he paced between bites and eyeballed the food as it went from the zookeeper to me and finally through the hole. The experience definitely left me in awe of its intimidating size, amazing strength and natural ferocity. Both experiences were totally 100% safe because the animals are securely contained behind a fence with an extra barrier of something (plexiglass maybe). And you use a funny looking stick to put each piece of food through a hole that the animal grabs with its mouth. Each “adventure” consists of feeding an animal probably 6-8 pieces of food so it’s well worth the price. If you are interested in participating in an adventure, the gift shop sells the passes and also provides a cute magnet to memorialize the adventure.


ENJOYMENT RATING: ♥♥♥♥♥ Though this is a small zoo with a very limited number of animals, it was highly enjoyable for our family. The size lends itself to easily viewable enclosures and creates a feeling of being unusually close to the animals. And the experience of feeding a bear and tiger was uniquely enjoyable for sure!

EDUCATION RATING: ♥♥♥♥♥  1. All enclosures were marked with the animal’s name and species and some included the story of how they ended up at Cat Tales. There’s the bear who was being raised in a bath tub and the wolf-hybrid who was found injured with a metal chain trailing behind him. 2. While we participated in the Big Cat and Bear Adventures, the zookeeper provided a lot of interesting info and answered our dozens of questions. He seemed very engaged in the process of educating us about the animals in his care.  3. While in the gift shop, we also met a couple of other keepers, one an intern and the other a student. Both were very willing to chat with us, not only about the animals, but also their experience in the field. It turns out that Cat Tales offers a Zookeeper program on-site, which we will keep in mind for our son in the future.

ENCLOSURE RATING: ♥♥♥♥_  It’s a small zoo with small enclosures and while that creates a very engaging viewing experience, it does make one wonder if the animals are “happy” in their space. But, each enclosure did include some sort of private area for the animal to escape to, though most were out and about while we were there {so maybe they are, in fact, happy to see guests.} And when you consider the fact that these animals were all rescued from bad situations and are now obviously being well cared for, things seem to even out. Plus, I saw on their website that they are in the middle of creating a new space for the wolf, foxes and coyotes so it seems they have the right idea. 

CONCLUDING THOUGHTS: If you’ve never heard of Cat Tales Zoological Park, you’re in good company because we hadn’t either. But I’m so glad we were able to experience this little gem.  Not only do we want to take every opportunity to take our zoologist-in-training to a new zoo, we want to have him experience a variety of types and sizes of zoos. Don’t come to Cat Tales expecting the San Diego Zoo or anything remotely similar. It is small. But it is enjoyable, educational and endearing. Each animal there has a tale to tell…a tale of survival. 

CONTACT INFO:

www.cattales.org~(509) 238-4126~17020 N Newport Hwy Mead, WA 99021

Filed Under: REVIEWS, Zoos Tagged With: cat tales, Cat Tales WIldlife Center, review, zoo, Zoo Review

Three Biggest Challenges of HOMESCHOOLING an ONLY CHILD

April 5, 2019 by Katherine Wolfe 4 Comments

What comes to mind when somebody says:

“Eight kids. Big van. Family museum passes. Maybe some chickens and a few goats.”

What did that make you think of? A homeschool family, right? Right!

But, as classic as that description might be, I’m pretty sure it’s not actually a picture of the typical  homeschool family.

The typical homeschool family is probably something more like four kids working on their spelling words with two dogs hanging out of the window of a Dodge Grand Caravan while in the drive thru at Chick-fil-A.

Whether the typical homeschool family is the former or the latter, I am not sure.

But what I am sure about is that the typical homeschool family does not look like MINE.

An only child.

One kid.

A lonely only.

NOT the typical homeschool family at all.

Atypical for sure. 

But, it’s who we are.

It’s not who we planned to be. We planned to have more kids but God had other plans so this is who we are.

We are a homeschool family with one kid.

Now, if you are a mom of a cargovan-full of kids, you might imagine that homeschooling one kid has its perks. And you’d be right.  FOR SURE.

{READ OTHER POST “Biggest Perks to Homeschooling an Only Child”}

But today I want to discuss the Three Biggest Challenges of Homeschooling an Only Child. 

ONE: SOCIALIZATION Ya know that infamous concern that some family members, totally random strangers and maybe even your late night brain like to ask us about?

“What about SOCIALIZATION?” 

I know homeschoolers usually make a mockery out of this question. There are loads of memes and tee-shirts touting the fact that socialization is an unwarranted concern regarding homeschooling. 

Truth be told, SOCIALIZATION is a valid CHALLENGE when it comes to homeschooling an only child. 

Any and all SOCIALIZATION needs to be planned before it can happen. Without siblings, there is absolutely no built-in socialization whatsoever. An only child has only parents with whom to

talk with, 

interact with, 

argue with, 

laugh with {and at,}

play with, 

learn from,

be annoyed by,

etc. 

All SOCIALIZATION needs to be planned in advance, put on the calendar and followed-through with. 

If Mom doesn’t have a car or the kid has the sniffles or the weather is dangerous or something else comes up, SOCIALIZATION simply cannot occur that day. 

That is not true for homeschool kids with siblings. No matter what, they have some degree of SOCIALIZATION always built in. Always. They may not want to socialize with their annoying little sister, but the option is always there. 

So, what’s the homeschool mom of an only-child to do?

The way I see it, we have three options:

  1. Allow your child to treat his dog like a sister but that might make his grown-up years a wee bit of a challenge. 
  2.  Ignore the need for socialization and keep your kid at home at all times. But, that will probably make for a challenging adulthood. {The sister-dog is a better option than this.}
  3.  Get out there and put your kid into some social situations! Even if you are a self-admitted introvert yourself, you need to get out there and find ways for your kid to socialize. 

But, it may not be as challenging as you think. Besides the ever-popular playdate, we have a myriad of choices from which to choose, including:

participating in library activities or co-op classes

competing in gymnastics, Tae-Kwon-Do or baseball

joining 4H, Boy Scouts or Heritage Girls

making new friends at the park, museum, splash pad or pool 

being a part of Sunday School, Awana or Youth Group

and so much more!

We need to acknowledge that SOCIALIZATION is definitely a challenge when homeschooling an only child but it is completely and totally within our grasp to find a solution. 

TWO: MANNERS This CHALLENGE ties in directly to SOCIALIZATION but it’s important enough to warrant its own discussion point.

I’ll admit this CHALLENGE has taken a bit of time for our family to address and, if I am being totally transparent, I’d still consider it a problem for my darling only child. 

Think of all of the ways that kids can be IMPOLITE and show a lack of MANNERS… 

cutting in line

shouting out answers

pushing/shoving to stake their place

burping, tooting, sighing

chewing loudly or talking with food in their mouths

not saying, “please,” “thank you” or “you’re welcome“

not greeting people when they enter a room

not providing proper personal space to others

not making eye contact when speaking to another person

mumbling when speaking

not listening when somebody else addressed him/her

and, there are surely a TON MORE!

Any and all of those MANNERS are really rather difficult to hone on your own. Seriously. 

Some might be able to be improved upon with a sister-dog as a stand-in peer. 

Some could be addressed by acting into a mirror. 

But, really, improving on MANNERS is a challenge that needs other people to help solve. 

It requires an adult or two to provide direct instructions but…

and this is where the challenge occurs for lonely only kids…

improving on MANNERS requires at least a peer or two. 

There’s nothing quite like hearing “ewwwww…THAT is soooooooooooooo gross!” to teach your kid that chewing with his mouth open is not a desirable trait in a friend. 

Only a slightly more mature peer can make it perfectly clear that when “excuse me” does not accompany a burp, there may not be a second playdate in the future. {This scenario might make for an embarrassing moment but I’d much rather my child learn it like this than on his first date in college.}

And, as much as we might like to dislike the Alpha Kid on the baseball team,  this probably provides the best opportunity for your child to learn that he needs to stand in line to take his turn at batting practice {as opposed to when he’s 25 and cutting in line at the DMV to renew his license.}

And, though you may despise all things Public School, if your kid can learn to raise his hand to get the teacher’s attention at co-op class, he won’t struggle to attend small group lectures at college. 

If parenting is all about preparing our babies to grow up to be fabulous adults, teaching MANNERS needs to be a part of our parenting plan. 

And if we have chosen to homeschool an ONLY CHILD, then we need to admit that teaching MANNERS will require some creative planning.

But, it’s totally doable. Just take your kids to any of the above suggested social opportunities and allow your child’s peers to help  him practice the MANNERS you’ve tried to teach him. 

THREE: FREE TIME  As most moms of only children will tell you, it can get exhausting, both mentally and physically, to be the only built-in playmate of a small person. With no siblings to fill that role, it’s totally up to a parent to be the de-facto playmate for all FREE TIME time. 

This can be a real struggle for any families with only children but it is even more of a prevalent CHALLENGE in families who homeschool an only child. 

We all know that one of the benefits of homeschooling is that our kids don’t need to sit down and do lessons M-F from 8am to 3pm. My son is most often done with his lessons and chores by 1pm. Yay!

But, then what ? As much as I wish that meant that we go on some sort of exciting four-hour adventure every day, we don’t.

As much as I’d like to say that means he and I play in the backyard for hours on end, I ain’t gonna lie. We don’t.

And as many times as I have planned to buy a Disc Golf set so we could play a daily round on the course that our back gate opens onto, I haven’t bought the set and we’ve never used the course. 

Don’t get me wrong, I do a lot of things with my child besides school. We often put big, elaborate Lego sets together. We enjoy watching silly animal video clips together. We always have a book that we are reading together. We love playing board games as a family, He loves to help me cook and bake. We’re both fairly obsessed with his sister-dog and spend hours each week tossing her balls and frisbees {and on the Disc Golf course no less…so does that count?}

But, let’s be honest.

This Mama needs her FREE TIME too. I need to do my devotionals. I need to plan school.  I need to cook dinner, make the beds, do laundry, vacuum the floors, dust the shelves and scrub the toilets {but, I don’t care what you say, I do NOT need to wash the windows.}

I also need to call the plumber, buy the groceries, make dentist appointments, pick up dry cleaning and return library books. 

Alright, now I need to be totally honest. I also need to

check Instagram, 

dye my hair, 

search for something pointless on Pinterest, 

add the latest Color Street strips to my nails, 

argue with an old high school friend on FaceBook, 

sit and stare into space, 

play Words with Friends, 

text my BFF,

and so much more!

{READ OTHER POST “I’m Certainly Not Doing My Best! Are You?”}

Clearly, I don’t have the ability to fill every moment of FREE TIME that my child has with something educational and exciting. He needs to learn how to manage some of that on his own. This would not be a CHALLENGE  if we allowed him to spend eight hours on electronic devices each day. But, we don’t. 

And, that makes for a serious FREE TIME CHALLENGE. 

So, what’s the Mama of an only homeschooled child to do? 

Besides getting your child involved in the SOCIALIZATION opportunities listed above, we need to provide our lonely only kids with ample supplies to entertain their burgeoning brains. Whether that’s books, art supplies, Legos, puzzles, a bug catching kit, coloring books, outside toys, sidewalk chalk, musical instruments or whatever else depends on the interests of your child. 

It might mean you need to take him to some music classes to spark a new interest or sit with her the first few times she tries to get the hang of  a new craft,  but then you might need to somewhat force the issue. Provide her the materials to use her FREE TIME in a variety of imaginative and creative ways and then make her use it. Give him ample fun and loud items to build up, bang on and knock down in his FREE TIME and then make him take the opportunity to pick them up and do it all over again. 

If you have a kid who hates doing things on her own, you’ll need to put some concerted effort into this but it will be well worth it in the end. It’s a real CHALLENGE but it’s not insurmountable. 

As a matter, of fact, all three of these CHALLENGES might seem daunting and actually spur you towards the local public school’s front desk, but let me tell you…

HOMESCHOOLING an ONLY CHILD {without turning him into an unsocialized, rude freak who cannot do anything on his own} is totally doable. Just look at my kid!

{Before you judge him by his long, blonde locks, Stormtrooper hat and shorts in 30 degree weather, you should know that this was taken on his first day at “work” when he was only 12 years old.}

{READ OTHER POST “ENORMOUS BONUS of HOMESCHOOLING: Structuring Education NOW to Meet Career Goals”}

Filed Under: SUGGESTIONS, Tips Tagged With: Homeschool, Homeschool vs public school, Homeschooling an Only Child, Only Child

ENORMOUS BONUS of HOMESCHOOLING: Structuring Education NOW to Meet Career Goals

April 5, 2019 by Katherine Wolfe 54 Comments

There are so many advantages to homeschooling our children.

We get to choose what curricula to use, when to bump up a level and when to back off.

We get to do Bible every day, math every other day and history twice each day {if we want.}

We get to structure our days exactly how it works best for our kids. We can start late in the day and teach through dinner. Or we can start at 6am and be done before The Price is Right comes on. 

We can pursue something unique that triggers our kid’s fancy, we can alter what we read in books or we can skip topics altogether. 

We are blessed to grow extra close relationships with our kids all the while helping them learn and grow and mature. 

But, another MAJOR benefit that recently struck me as an ENORMOUS BONUS that cannot be matched via any other educational option is

being able to structure their education NOW to meet up with their career goals LATER in life. 

I only have one example to offer but I am completely and utterly positive that there are a gazillion examples of how to make this work for YOUR KID.

Our son, who is now 12, has wanted to be a zookeeper FORbasicallyEVER. 

Now, a LOT of kids like animals and many seem to really LOVE them so none of this surprised us. We catered to his likes by visiting zoos in multiple cities and states, taking him to live animal shows and watching several reality-based zoo shows as a family.

Like most parents, we unconsciously assumed he would change his mind, but, his childhood dream hasn’t waned at all. He simply wants to be a zookeeper. 

While he was in the middle of his Seventh Grade year, my husband decided to begin researching the path to zookeepering. And, one of the biggest surprises that we discovered was the suggestion {made by many renowned professionals in the field of animal keeping} that young adults need to have SIGNIFICANT VOLUNTEER TIME under their belts before they can even begin to dream of applying for a paid zookeeper gig. 

Now, I’ll admit. This suggestion of SIGNIFICANT VOLUNTEER TIME gave me visions of a college graduate living in my basement for years while he schlepped down to the local animal shelter or maybe shoveling stalls at a nearby farm. 

But then I had the realization that this kid of ours can start volunteering NOW. He’s only 12. But he has the time and he has the dream. So, I did some quick thinking (not a lot of options in our smallish town, which is located no closer than 90 miles from an actual zoo,) and I landed on our local museum that just so happens to have

two giant tortoises

an alligator snapping turtle, 

an alligator gar, 

more snakes than I want to acknowledge, 

one bat, 

several frogs and toads,

two chuckwallas, 

a couple of water monitors, 

a pair of red slider turtles

and about 1000 mice

{because they purposely breed them to feed everything above.}

So, I made some calls on Wednesday, our son had his first ever interview on Friday and he began “work” Monday morning at 9am!

He now spends about 6-8 hours each week helping care for this menagerie of animals and working toward his dream job!

I could write an entire post on the benefits of this experience {and I probably will} but the point of this post is this…

He’s ONLY 12 years old and is actually actively working towards his career goal!

I think that is an ENORMOUS BONUS of homeschooling! Don’t you?

The kid’s first day at “work”

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Career Goals, Homeschool, hOMESCHOOL kIDS, Homeschool moms

Stop saying, “WE’RE ALL JUST DOING OUR BEST,” because I’m not! Are you?

March 28, 2019 by Katherine Wolfe 83 Comments

I wish moms would just stop saying, “We’re all just doing our best,” because I’m certainly not! Are you?

I heard it again just yesterday. Or, rather, I SAW it several times in a series of comments in a FaceBook group for homeschooling moms.

“She’s just doing her best,”

“Stop. The Mommy Wars. We’re all doing the best we can.”

“We need to show more support for one another. We’re doing our best!”

And, yet, I wonder, “are we?”

I know for darn certain that I AM NOT.

Sure, I have some uber duber super duper days.

I usually take charge of Monday and own it like a boss.

I’m up early. My lesson plans are all prepped. The kitchen is spotless. The laundry is whirling away. The carpets are vacuumed. The kid is on task. Nobody is yelling or crying. I’m even dressed (including a bra) and actually answer the door when the UPS man arrives. I have meals planned. It’s all good. I AM DOING MY BEST!

But, by Thursday little of that fabulousness remains. No bra. No home-cooked meals. No clean carpets. Those things have been replaced with short tempers from everybody, Hot Pockets for lunch and Hulu in the middle of the day.

I KNOW how to own my days. I KNOW what it means to do my best. I do! I did it on Monday and Tuesday…some weeks I even rock Wednesday too.

So, what happened? It’s not like I forgot. And, truth be told, it’s not like anything changed. I just got tired and, frankly, more than a wee bit lazy. While sitting on the couch in my day pajamas, I will contemplate all I need to do but am NOT doing. I have the time. I have the knowledge. I just don’t have the energy. Or the desire. Or the gumption. I’m not sure what to call it. 

Call it whatever you want, but it sure isn’t  MY BEST.

Now, I know most moms, ESPECIALLY homeschool moms, have way more on their figurative plates than I do* with more kids and actual jobs but I still wonder if “we’re all just doing our best.” I honestly believe that, for the most part, the truth is we’re not.

WE ARE NOT DOING OUR BEST.

If you rang my doorbell on Thursday at 1:30pm, you’d probably find me braless and drinking coffee with unbrushed teeth and my hair in a blob on my head.  You’d find my kid wearing the same clothes that he wore to Youth Group the night before, eating Doritos while watching You Tube on the iPad. There’d be dishes in the sink, cat fur on the carpet and laundry on the kitchen table. 

Are any of those things HORRIBLE enough to warrant a call to Child Protective Services. Of course not. But, are they MY BEST?

Good golly, no. 

If I actually answered the door and let you in, I’d apologize for the messy everything  and you’d brush it off and say, “Oh. It’s fine! You should see MY house. No worries. We’re all just doing our best.” And then we’d laugh and pretend that was true. 

But, if that was true, my Thursday would look like my Monday. 

If that was true, dry shampoo would not be on an auto order with Amazon.

If that was true, they would not recognize us at the McDonald’s drive-thru.

If that was true, my husband would not need to remind me to put gas in my car before I run out again. 

If that was true, I wouldn’t avoid the bathroom scale like I do WalMart on a Sunday. 

If that was true, the kid would not have a pile of incomplete school work labeled “Summer Stuff”. 

Instead of saying, “You’re just doing your best,” maybe we need to be brave and bold and say, “While you binge watch The Handmaid’s Tale this weekend, why don’t you fold some laundry? Eight piles on the kitchen table really isn’t okay.  Everybody, including YOU, will appreciate it.”♥

Or instead of ignoring your child’s rude interruptive behavior at co-op because you’re “just doing your best” and taking a break while chatting with another homeschool mom, you actually break away from the conversation and redirect your child’s behavior.♦

Or perhaps instead of perusing FaceBook for hours each day, you actually sit down and plan some meals. McDonald’s won’t be happy but your husband, bank account and BMI will be.♣

Now, I’m not saying we all need to start openly calling one another out on doing our best. I’m not saying that at all. That would do nothing but ramp up the Mommy Wars and create loads of resentful, angry women.

But, I AM suggesting that we start calling out OURSELVES. Ask yourself, “am I really doing my best?” 

And, MAYBE, after your answer is consistently “YES!” you can then broach the subject with your BFF. Maybe. 

*{It’s tough to beat how much I have on my literal plate though! I LOVE food!} 

♥{True story, basically but with a different series every weekend since I finished Handmaid’s Tale long ago.}

♦{Totally true story except for the days I was teaching co-op because it’s hard to gossip with other moms while teaching a group of kids.}

♣{Oh my! 100% true story but with Freddy’s and Q’Doba mixed in too.}

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